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Ten Things That Stop You From Being Amazing

Posted on February 6, 2014 at 9:44 AM
I friend gave me an article in The Metro this week about Life Coach, Michael Serwa, and the following impressed me so much I thought it was worth sharing (edited and expanded slightly) :

Ten Things That Stop You From Being Amazing:

1. You worry too much about what other people will think.
    Other people are too busy worrying about what you think of them to be thinking about what you     are doing. Or to use Will Smith's words: 'stop letting people who put you down control so much       of your life.'

2. You are in a career you don't really like:
    Seriously, change it. Do you really want to look back from your deathbed and see yourself in a       career you didn't really like? Take small positive steps towards what you really enjoy doing.

3. You try to do everything yourself:
     Don't. Learn to delegate or prioritise as much as you can so that you can free up time to do           things that you really enjoy doing (and then do them)

4. You wait for something or someone to motivate you:
    Stop waiting for someone else. Find something that excites you, something you enjoy doing.           That is what really motivates you. (if you are stuck, work out what it is that you do instead of       the things you should be doing but don't want to). The reality is, no-one else can motivate you       to do something you don't want to do.

5. People around you bring you down:
    On average we have five people we spend most of our time with. Choose those people wisely.         No-one needs negative nellies in our life. Challenge them about it or spend less time with them.       Also, perhaps, work out why you gravitate towards people who are bringing you down.

6. You put other people's happiness before your own:
    Work out what makes you happy, what makes you smile, and do more of that. Your happiness         will be contagious and other people will be attracted to it. You can still help others, but not at       the expense of your own happiness. 

7. You don't know where you are going:
    You have no sense of direction, no purpose, no reason to get out of bed in the morning. What is     it that you want to do. Where is it that you want to go. Set goals. Take actions.

8. You blame other people and circumstances for where you are:
    The truth is, life can be very unfair. But this is your life. Take responsibility for it and, basically,       bluntly, stop moaning about it. You will feel better if you do something about the parts of your       life that you are not happy about. Then you wont need to moan about it.

9. You are living with regret about the past or unrealistic expectations about the future:
    You cannot change the past, so grieve for it, cry if you need to and then move on. You don't         need to forget it, but don't let it keep you in the past. And be realistic about the future.               Especially, there is no Santa Claus, no magical solution to your problems. Don't wait for a lottery     win before you decide to do something with your future. Act Now.

10. You are your own worst critic
      How many reasons do you have in your own head for why you can't do something. Stop                 criticising yourself (why do that to yourself?). Stop comparing yourself to others (they may           appear confidant, but they struggle just as you do). Most of all, Be Kind To Yourself.

I hope this helps. I found it very useful. But please, I beg you, don't use this list to put yourself down. Use it to motivate yourself. and I stand on the last words of point ten:

Most of all, Be Kind To Yourself.



Categories: Advice, Change, Happiness, Life, Motivational, Self Esteem, Self Help, Success

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